Nicola, a passionate educator with a deep commitment to community connection, didn’t mince her words:

“You have to think of online predators like it’s their full-time job.”

“Parents often feel isolated like it’s just happening to just their child. But it’s not.”

“Social media, gaming, even online gambling: these things are hooking our teenagers in ways we never have had to face.”

Nicola understands the pressures parents face today, however she also knows the power of coming together as a wider community to support our rangatahi.

That’s why she’s throwing her support behind an important upcoming event hosted by Path Wānaka:

Our Kids Online with Rob Cope

Thursday 11 September

6:30PM Lake Wānaka Centre

Get your tickets here.

Rob Cope’s Our Kids Online is a powerful, practical session for parents and caregivers. Whether you’ve got a teenager deep into the world of social media or gaming, or a younger child just starting their digital journey, this evening will give you tools, strategies and insights to help keep them safe, balanced and well.

It’s not about fear, it’s about feeling well equipped.

As Nicola said, “Education is about preparing young people for their lives now and in the future. That includes their online lives.”

Who is this event for?

Parents, caregivers, grandparents

Educators and youth workers

Anyone who wants to better understand the digital world our kids live in.

Can’t afford a ticket?

No problem, we don’t want cost to be a barrier – just reach out to us and we’ll make sure you’re looked after. Contact email: hello@pathwanaka.org.nz

We’re lucky to live in a place like Wānaka, where the outdoors are our playground and community still matters. But even here, we’re not immune to the challenges of the digital age. Let’s show up for our kids!

Get your ticket now: https://events.humanitix.com/our-kids-online-rob-cope/tickets

Click here to hear the full interview between Nicola Jacobsen, te Kura o Tititea Principal Mount Aspiring College and Joel Palmer, More FM Breakfast Host – Queenstown.

What Does a ‘Good Parent’ Prioritise Every Day? (Hint: It’s not perfection.)

Myth: Good parents always know what to do and never need help.

In the chaos of modern parenting, work pressures, school demands, and endless notifications, it’s easy to feel like you’re never quite doing enough. But here’s a gentle reminder: your teen doesn’t need a perfect parent. They just need a present one.

Instead of chasing perfect parenting, try shifting focus to what really matters:

• PRESENCE over perfection
• LISTENING over lecturing
• CONNECTION over correction
• GROWTH over grades

A Simple Daily Check-In

If you’re not sure where to start, ask yourself this: How much deep attention do I give to building a positive connection with my teen each day?

These quick, low-effort ideas can have a big impact over time:

• 10 minutes of undivided attention every day
• One genuine compliment about their character
• Ask: “What was the best part of your day? Why?”
• Share something new you learned recently

These simple, ‘daily’ consistent moments help build trust, respect, and openness that teens respond to.

You Don’t Have to Do It Alone

The Path Wānaka Parent Whānau Group Coaching Programme is designed for parents who want practical tools, not just theory, and a safe, confidential space to explore challenges, feel heard, and learn strategies that actually work.

• Whether you’re navigating:
• Communication breakdowns
• Behavioural challenges
• Big emotions (theirs or yours)
• Feeling unsupported or overwhelmed or just stuck …
• … you’re not alone. And you’re not failing.

Term 4 Group Parent Whānau Group Coaching Details

We’re back for Term 4 starting on Thursday 6^th November with a mix of in-person and online sessions, designed to work with your busy schedules.

Join other local parents creating positive change in their families through confidential small group parent coaching.

What you’ll get from the group:

• Real tools that work for real teens
• Support from other local parents facing similar struggles
• Strategies to rebuild connection and trust
• Confidence in your parenting and decision-making

Or if a group isn’t your thing, private 1:1 sessions (45-60 minutes) with Ali are also available.

One Last Thing – You’ve got this.

But you don’t have to do it on your own.

Every parent in our coaching programme has started exactly where you are now – unsure, tired, and trying their best.

Choose to invest in the most important relationship of all. Your teen needs you to be the parent who:

• Shows up
• Stays curious
• Keeps growing

Want to learn more?

Learn more here or contact us hello@pathwanaka.org.nz with any further queries.

Truth: ‘Good parents ask for help when they need it’.

(Real parenting isn’t about perfection — it’s about showing up, learning as you go, and modelling that it’s OK to seek support.
That’s not weakness — that’s wisdom).

Author Ali McCormick is a highly Skilled and engaging teacher; she makes complex concepts easy to grasp and apply, instilling confidence in all learners. Her style is clear, positive and inclusive. Ali’s powerful coaching skills  ensure everyone walks away with an actionable, personalised plan.

Got a great idea for an event? Let us know!

We’re here to help bring the right people and experts to our community in support of our youth and their families.  If you have an idea for a great topic or speaker, contact us at Path Wānaka | Ara ki Wānaka.  We’ve got you!

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Key Principles:

Safety and enjoyment are paramount.

Alcohol concerns? Consider an alcohol-free event to keep things simple and safe. For people under 18, the safest option is not drinking at all and delaying drinking for as long as possible.

Legalities: If alcohol is involved, remember it’s a serious offence to supply to anyone under 18 unless specific conditions are met (parental consent, responsible supply).

Planning & Organisation:

Team effort: Work closely with parents, guardians, and students. A collaborative approach ensures a well-organised event.

Police Partnership: Inform local police early and be open to their visitation for everyone’s peace of mind.

Security Measures: Have appropriate adults acting as security on entry and exit throughout the duration of the event.

Entertainment: Hiring a DJ can create a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere, fostering opportunities for interaction and engagement among peers.

Consideration: Be considerate of neighbours, noise and parking may impact them so giving them a heads up beforehand goes a long way.

Venue Selection:

Keep it Secret: Reveal the venue last minute to maintain exclusivity and control.

Facility Check: Ensure ample kitchen and toilet facilities, exits and space.

Invitations & Attendance:

Exclusive Entry: Recommended that only ball attendees or invitees can join. Secure entry with wrist bands or stamps. No door sales – pre-sold tickets only.

Gate: Limited time to enter e.g. 30 minutes only.

Watchful Eyes: Parents and guardians present to monitor and assist.

Alcohol Policy:

Delivery & Distribution: Parents deliver alcohol prior to the event. Distribute responsibly via a controlled, adult-supervised bar.

Underage Drinking: If allowed (parental consent, responsible supply), ensure a responsible approach: supervised consumption, no glass, food availability, and safe transport.

Transport:

Safe Rides: Arrange transportation to and from the event, ensuring no one drives under the influence.

At the Event:

Food & Hydration: Abundant food, water and non-alcoholic drinks. Consider BBQ, sandwiches, and savouries. Circulate all evening.

First Aid: Have a kit and a designated adult for minor emergencies.

Sober Monitor: Encourage groups to designate a sober friend for the night.

Quiet Zone: Offer a safe and quiet space for those needing a break.

In Case of Trouble:

Immediate Action: Parents called for any issues with intoxication, illegal drugs/contraband, or disruptive behaviour.

Communication: Have operational mobile phones on hand for emergencies.

Community Support: Contact details for local police and health services should be readily available.

Venue Address: Know the address of the event venue in case you need to call emergency services. Some rural locations do not have specific street addresses.

REMEMBER:

Every celebration is a milestone. Let’s make it memorable for all the right reasons – fun, safe, and inclusive for everyone.

For more information:

https://www.actionpoint.org.nz/parents_supplying_get_prepared

https://healthify.nz/hauora-wellbeing/a/alcohol/

https://nosafelimit.co.nz/

https://info.health.nz/services-support/online-phone-healthcare/healthline

Author Jamie Seymour Health Promotion Advisor | Te Whatu Ora – Kaiwhakatairanga Hauora with National Public Health Service – Southern.

Got a great idea for an event? Let us know!

We’re here to help bring the right people and experts to our community in support of our youth and their families.  If you have an idea for a great topic or speaker, contact us at Path Wānaka | Ara ki Wānaka.  We’ve got you!

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Get the latest blog posts, updates and news from Path Wānaka straight to your inbox. Sign up to our newsletter here.